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Spokesperson Coaching Tip #16: Honestly, it sounds like a lie

Posted by Barbara Gibson, ABC on July 2, 2007

I wrote awhile back (in Spokesperson Coaching Tip #7) about how overuse of verbal crutches can undermine a spokesperson’s credibility and effectiveness.  The very worst of these are the phrases that are intended to convey openness and honesty, because they tend to have the exact opposite effect.  Words and phrases like “to be pefectly honest,” “frankly,” “candidly,” and “truthfully” act as red flags to the listener, rather than reassurances.  Once or even twice may not hurt too much, but if it becomes a frequently used verbal crutch, the spokesperson inevitably scores low with journalists on “seems open and honest” when we perform a formal Spokesperson Assessment.  And since that score has a direct correlation to the journalist’s desire to have a long-term relationship with the spokesperson to utilize them as a resource, the impact on your media relations efforts can be dramatic.

Even some of the most polished spokespeople fall into this habit.  At last week’s IABC international conference, held in New Orleans, the association presented its EXCEL award, honoring a senior corporate executive who is an outstanding communicator.  Stu Reed, executive vice president of Motorola’s Integrated Supply Chain, was the recipient, as well as keynote speaker.  He was incredibly smooth, personable, funny, and articulate.  But he had a near-fatal reliance on this particular verbal crutch.  In fact, he used all of the phrases mentioned above, multiple times.  I couldn’t help counting, and finally lost count at 24 (less than half-way through the speech).  Afterward, two other people mentioned noticing it (one of whom also started counting).  Many more, no doubt, didn’t notice the words, but may have been affected on a more subliminal level.  At dinner a the following evening, several people were discussing his presentation, and asked me what I thought.  Before answering, I asked them to give me their own impressions of him.  One woman hit the nail on the head when she said, “While he was speaking, I thought he was great.  But later, my feelings changed, and I’m not sure why.  It just didn’t ring true.”

I  have to say here that I’m confident that Mr. Reed was, in fact, being honest with his audience.  He’s an outstanding speaker in every other way, and I’m certain he fully deserves the honor he was receiving.  But this one minor weakness undermined his credibility with at least a portion of his audience.   And he’s probably not even aware of it.  I’d guess his PR team is (it’s hard to miss), but they may not have realized its importance, or had the opportunity to address it with him. My point is that spokesperson assessment is not only for very weak spokespeople.  It can be a way to identify relatively minor things that can have a major impact on spokesperson effectiveness and often are easily fixed with targeted coaching.

3 Responses to “Spokesperson Coaching Tip #16: Honestly, it sounds like a lie”

  1. Great point, about these crutches. I too have the habit of counting words like “actually,” “you know,” and “to be frank” and I put it down to me being one part communicator and one part journalist. I have to say (you could tell now I am being selective in my phrases here –I could have easily said ‘to be frank’ !) I didn’t think Stu Reed’s use of those crutches were overused, but yes he was outstanding in his delivery, and of course his attitude to communication.

    One other point. I believe other cultures have similar uses of these verbal crutches. I live in the US but come from Sri Lanka, where we have a similar expression for “to be truthful” in Sinhalese. Politicians use it a lot (!) but it is also used when someone is passionate about something, and wants you to believe he is convinced about it –almost like our use of “I swear.”

  2. Barbara, I am curious what you think about the use of a person’s first name in addressing a point you feel particularly strongly about, for instance, when the spokesperson is providing background to the media and wants to get the person’s attention (and don’t we always want that!). You wouldn’t use it with the media when you’re being broadcast, but in a one-on-one conversation, is it a good idea when you’re just discussing something, if that’s your style, Barbara? It feels a little false to me, perhaps because it is not my style.

  3. Hi Molly. I’m with you, especially if it’s that deliberate use of my name (often by someone trying to sell me something), that tends to make me bristle at what feels like an attempt to manipulate me. If it’s natural or occasional, that’s another thing. All that said, I’ve got to point out that I haven’t researched this at all, so I’d be interested to hear from anyone who has strong opinions or knowledge to back up the other side. Anyone?

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